I remember when I was pregnant with Leela, a decade after Melody, looking up natural baby lists, minimalist baby lists. I wanted something different than what I had seen when I was pregnant with Melody and I felt compelled to have it all – the crib, the changing table (I laugh at this now… even non-crunchy moms end up saying that is their least-used item and they ended up changing their baby on the floor/bed/etc much easier), the wipes warmer, the diaper genie thing…
I began to realize I didn’t need that list to guide me, that I already knew the essentials and the luxuries I would appreciate. This is not a list for “anyone,” this is a list for me. Please don’t feel judged if you’re not a minimalist crunchy momma like me. 😉
Now with baby 4, the list hasn’t changed, it’s just that we have most of it already!
Necessities:
- Breasts
- Lots of trusted arms to hold baby, in community
- some sort of small vessel to catch elimination
- some natural blankets
Luxuries:
- Diono carseat (I am one of the “diligent researchers” Guggie mentions, so, this is one of MANY things I have looked at in regards to toxins) – I put this in the luxury category because having a vehicle, while feeling necessary, is not a necessity to life
- baby legs and/or split crotch pants for EC
- 10 cotton diapers (I love our homemade, nearly free t-shirt pocket diapers) and cotton inserts
- 4 wool diaper covers (I use the same pattern as above, but stitch up the top)
- Snappis or equivalent
- small lambskin rug
- 7 cotton shirts, not onesies
- Moses basket – probably the bottom of my list, now
- a few natural toys
What I don’t want taking up space in my home:
- crib
- playpen – we were given one and it contained toys and a blanket or two for about a month, sans Leela, when I put it in our storage and I am trying to sell it
- stroller
- lots of clothing, especially baby hats
- plastic anything/flashy toys
- many stuffed animals – these are the bane of my existence…. 😛
- changing table
- wipes warmer
- diaper trash container
- baby swing
- high chair and/or purees